You know how it is. Somebody forgets something and somebody says something about the forgetful person having Alzheimer's. Before your eyes glaze over or you think you know what kind of post this is, let me assure you that this isn't the case. I'm not going to shame those who would make such jokes. People realize the seriousness of the disease, how it can rob people of their lives, and admire the loved ones who care for them day after day...as another piece slips away. Most people, they're not scientists. They don't have a cure handy. You think about all of that, realize there's nothing you can do to make it better, even offering comfort still makes you feel bad inside...and the joke is made when someone forgets a meeting. Or what someone told them. The people that make these jokes shouldn't be despised, or pitied. They don't know what else to do. It's a coping mechanism. And they want to do something.

The Alzheimer's Association is setting up Alzheimer's Memory Walks nationwide for those who wish to help to sign up and raise money to help fight this unfortunate affliction. You can search right there on the home page to find a walk in your area. They're usually on weekend mornings in the fall, and about 2-3 miles. Fall scenery and walking equals doing good for yourself and for others. You can even become a team captain and set up your own team. Sign up early for a Memory Walk, encourage friends, neighbors and coworkers to sign up as well. And if you've ever made one of those jokes, you can take pride in the fact that you are doing something more and you don't have to just feel ashamed deep down.